Storytime at the Networking Event - Success Stories Give The Audience a Chance Play a Role
We've all been there. We are at a networking event and it's time for the elevator speeches. And one by one they drone one in a rhythmic fashion. "I'm Bob with Bobs Inc." "I'm Mary with Mary's Cleaning." "I'm Steve with Steve's Warehouse." Each introduction more mundane than the last. YAWN!
But then something unusual happens. We find that we're listening to someone more intently. And before we know it, we're hooked. We forget about the time and our wonderful buffet lunch, and find ourselves deep inside another world. In this new world we are experiencing new and exciting things. What is the difference? A story.
When delivering your elevator speech (Magical Networking Moment), using stories will capture the imagination and move the audience to take action much faster than the facts. So present the facts in a success story. A success story is any recount of an experience a customer has had with you, your product, your service, or your business. Success stories are extremely powerful.
Most people are thinking about themselves most of the time. This is the challenge every marketer has when conveying information about their products and services. How do we break the preoccupation of the audience? People will naturally listen longer and more intently to a story than to a pitch. What's more, people are naturally curious and want to know how a story ends.
And when a story applies to them, people have the ability to project themselves into the story and really see the success happening for them too. When they do, you have the rare opportunity to use their self-focus to your benefit. When people are able to think about themselves while using your product or service it translates into more business for you.
Be certain that your story is true as honesty is always the best policy and your integrity and credibility are keys to networking success. And resist the temptation to embellish for effect. Those who relate to the story won't need a larger than life experience to be drawn in. That isn't to say that you shouldn't bring life to the story. Include sensory words like saw, felt, tasted, and heard to bring the story to life.
And for those who are new to the company, use a story from a seasoned veteran. Again, confirm the truth of the story but once confirmed, share the success story with audiences until you have your own. Tell a success story every chance you get. You may use different stories or the same one over and over again. Remember there are always new ears listening.
One bit of caution when using stories. Just as the audience will be drawn in and will loose track of time, so will you if you haven't practiced. Don't attempt to tell a story off the cuff. Practice your story in front of a mirror until you have the right facial expressions and you have a handle on the time it takes to share. Telling the story masterfully is a skill that must be developed and practiced.
Storytelling has been with us since our first words. Cave dwellers and ancients from all parts of the globe used pictures to tell stories. Today we continue to share our most powerful lessons through stories. You can use stories to tell in a more interesting way the story of your product or service and more people will be interested. Use the success story to win more business and build better relationships. Tell the story.
Observe the Multiple Networking Group Law: No Double-Dipping
As you begin to find success in networking you will undoubtedly expand your network to include more than one group. Becoming active in several networking groups focused on varying interest, geography, or industry is a wise move that will broaden your exposure and increase your effectiveness. We encourage and highly recommend that you are involved in more than one group, chamber of commerce, or both.
With expanded exposure comes the opportunity to share your network with a wider variety of people. You will provide more solutions to more people and they will provide you with more connections. Your network will grow. This benefits you, your network, and your new networking partners.
However there is one rule that you must never violate if you are to succeed in multiple groups. Never under any circumstances give two people in the same business the same referral. If your friend Sam is buying a new house, you cannot refer Sam to two mortgage brokers in different groups. That is just like double-dipping chips at a party; you just shouldn't do it. It is not cool and everyone gets hurt when you share the same referral with two people in the same industry.
Your friend Sam gets a mixed message and begins to feel like he is just a number to you. He is likely to think you are not trying to help him as much as you are trying to help yourself. The two mortgage brokers end up embarrassed and looking like little more than glad-handing salespeople. And you end up with a loss of credibility that will lead to fewer referrals and potential expulsion from both groups.
But do not be confused. It is appropriate and desirable to share the same referral with solution providers in similar but different industries. You most definitely should share Sam's name with one mortgage broker, one realtor, one insurance agent, and one moving company provided you know that Sam has an interest or need for these services. Your knowledge of Sam's needs is a direct result of your relationship with Sam.
Your relationship with Sam may not be close enough for you to know all his needs and interests. You may have recently met Sam and you only know he is in the market for a new home. It stands to reason he may have a need a mortgage broker, insurance agent, realtor, and mover. But you are not close enough to Sam to know for certain. You should still share Sam's name with one provider for each service from your network. In doing so be clear with each person that Sam is a lead, not a referral. In either case, sending resources to Sam that can solve his problems helps him, the referral partners, and you.
Understanding how and when to share referrals is essential to your success in networking and in life. Observing the law of "no double-dipping" will ensure you have greater success.